We weren't particularly stressed going in. The wedding was done, we were just — ready. But even by that standard, Phu Quoc did something. By day two we'd stopped reaching for our phones as often. By day three we were having the kind of long slow conversations you forget you used to have. The Phu Quoc couple tours that give you actual unscheduled time — not every hour accounted for — those are the ones worth finding.